“You are born because you are going to be important to someone,” I think this statement to be true. Everyone is going to be a special person to someone when we meet them in our lives. If we see from our birth we become special to our parents, then to siblings, and then come our relatives, friends. You have so many people who love, care and give importance to us in their life. Life seems so rosy and beautiful when you are liked by everyone and you get importance in each and every step of our life. But is life like a railway track with no bumps in it?
If you observe, people are very emotional and possessive in nature. They could be possessive for humans, the things which they like, that depends on the people and their priorities. Humans are possessive about people because it’s a human characteristic. Well many of them hide their emotions and many of them cant so they spill out. This possessiveness starts from our own house. When your cousins come to your house to spend their vacations and your mom seems to take good care of them, at that point of time you feel ignored by her and take that on to your heart. You will have that feeling of ignorance by your mom at that particular time. Well this might be called possessiveness.
When you are in school ,if our friend sits with us every day on the same bench and one day because of some issues he/she opts to sit somewhere else and you take that point on to your heart and start feeling for it. Your best friend having Birthday and he dint invite you first, then again you will feel upset for that. Why is it so? Are you expecting something from him/her? Why is does that feeling come? Is it a protocol or some custom that your friend should invite you first on his/her birthday or should sit by your side every day? You actually keep your friend in top priority but you doesn’t think is he /she keeping you in the same place? Their priority might be some other person but you force your mind to think that h/she also have same perception about you.
As you grow up the possessiveness and emotions increase. In college most of the people want to be in relationship and I want to touch on this issue because it’s a common thing and the consequences are also catastrophic. You get into relationship because the guy or girl is giving high importance or priority I should say than any other person. But time comes when you feel your loved one is giving less time to you and giving less importance to you in his/her life. The belief which you had on him/her is slowly getting faded away. Is the marginal utility against you is diminishing or you don’t have that charm what you had earlier?