Do you have 5 female best friends and 10 rakhie sisters, then this blogpost is perfect for you. Neither am I a loveguru nor a hunk who has 10 girls following him, but a simple guy who has been victim of BGBFB syndrome i.e Being a Girl Best friend or Brother.
A guy does not suffer from such emotional trauma from a girl rejection as he faces when being made a brother or best friend from a girl he has a crush on. So here some lessons, which I have learned from my experience of being a member of BGBFB club for a very long time.
Don’t be her helping angel – It’s good to help people but regularly helping a girl on whom you have a crush is like a double-edged sword. It is only a matter of time that you are a guy who will never say no to her when she is in a crisis.
Don’t talk much neither listen much – We all like to be heard and so do girls. Never be a listener to her regular crisis. A zone only reserved for best friends and brothers.
Don’t be in a hurry to take it to the next level – Drop hints but don’t send desperate signals. The day a girl realises that you are in a hurry to take it to the next level she will be in a hurry to tie you a rakhie.
Don’t be a SNOB but have some attitude – Be a bit mysterious whom the girl would like to know more and not be like a open book.
Make her laugh but don’t be her clown – Girls like guys who possess a good sense of humor but a guy who makes a girl laugh every other second is the one whom she would never want to lose. And an easy way for a girl to do that is by adding him to the BGBFB club
On a concluding note “Yeh hai har ladke ki kahani, Dev ki zubani
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